Wednesday, March 02, 2016

Dealing with the Death of a Loved One


Dealing with the Death of a Loved One




No doubt, the death of someone you are close to is a painful experience, but it is an experience everyone will deal with at some time in their lifetime.

There are five stages of grief one usually goes through after a death, which generally occur in this order: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally acceptance. These are based upon the Kübler-Rossmodel.

Legal Considerations


From a legal perspective, there are certain legal issues that unfortunately should be addressed while you are still grieving. Most important of these is dealing with the estate of the deceased. Whether that person had a will or trust or nothing at all, their estate should be probated, even if there are little to no assets. This will often help to wipe out certain debts. A probate attorney can handle this process.

If thedeath was wrongful from a legal standpoint, then dealing with a wrongful death lawsuit cannot be put off indefinitely. Not only are there statutes of limitations in play, but if the wrongful party was a government entity, then a tort claim notice has to be filed within 180 days (about six months). Stevens & Legal can handle these cases for you.

Helping Yourself

The last topic to discuss are some ways you can help yourself while dealing with the emotional issues of the death of your loved one. First, there are many free support groups out there to help you discuss the death and your relationship with that person, whereby you can gain empathy from others in similar circumstances. Even if you are not a talker, one of the most effective ways to deal with grief is through talking with others who have also dealt with this or are dealing with it. You can also connect with your family, as death can often bring families back together after years apart. Another option is to find a good book on dealing with death and read it. Also, professional counseling can help, and your health insurance may pay for some sessions. Lastly, do not be afraid to cry.

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